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Preparing children for their first day at school

Aug 2023

Although many children will have attended nursery or some form of structured learning from an early age, the first day of primary school remains a big change for everyone, so it is only natural for a child to feel apprehensive.

We’ve put together a variety of things to consider that parents can use to help make their child's introduction to school life as smooth as possible:

Prepare for the day, weeks in advance

Use the last few weeks of the summer holidays to prepare children for their first term at school. Get them involved in picking out their uniform, school bags and stationery.

Establish a school routine with your children, outlining when they will need to go to sleep, wake up, get dressed and pack their bags. Creating a visual timetable to outline the school day including assemblies, lessons and morning/afternoon breaks could also be helpful.

Build on the skills they will need

Children will need to concentrate for long periods of time, interact with their peers and listen to detailed instructions once they begin their school life.

Developing these skills will ensure your child is well-equipped for some of the challenges they will encounter when they start school:

  • playing games that involve taking turns or speaking in front of a group
  • playing with children of a similar age to develop social skills
  • reading books about starting school
  • using your child's favourite toys to role-play going to school
  • painting and drawing

Reassure your child

Talk through your child's fears and help them visualise what they will be doing at school, where they will be going and how long they will be there for. Emphasise the fact that there will be plenty of activities they will enjoy doing during the course of the school day, as well as letting them know that someone they are familiar with will be back to collect them when they are done. It may help for an older sibling, cousin or family friend to talk to them about what to expect, and to highlight all the benefits of going to 'big school'.

Get them used to the basics of self-care

There are some routines you can run-through with your child over the summer holidays which will help them to be a bit more independent when they start school. Going to the toilet and washing their hands, getting dressed for PE and finding coat pegs are all routines you can run through with your child until they feel confident carrying them out on their own.